Daring to Redefine Life, One Bite & Border at a Time
50+. Black. Queer.
And done playing by the rules.
Join me as I navigate the raw, real, and ridiculously unpredictable journey of moving abroad—one meal, misstep, and magical moment at a time.
Hey, I’m Mel!
In 2021, I sold my house, quit my career, and set off to find a new country to call home—and, hopefully, more joy. Spoiler: I’m still searching…but I’m getting closer. Along the way, I’ve eaten (and soul-searched) my way through 10+ countries, captured thousands of drool-worthy food shots, and learned that life resets are messy, magical, and definitely not for the faint of heart.
If you’ve ever dreamed of escaping the 9-to-5, finding a place with better weather (or saner politics), or shaking things up before life does it for you, you’re in the right place.
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Where Am I Now?
I’m currently exploring Mexico, starting with Guadalajara. The plan keeps changing but at some point I should be in Oaxaca, San Cristobal de las Casas, Queretaro, San Miguel de Allende, and Mexico City.